What is a Promise Ring?

Everything you need to know about promise rings and when to give them

Promise rings are one of the most sentimental pieces you can have in your jewellery collection. They're symbolic, striking, and have been spotted all over social media. A promise ring is a token of commitment, generally exchanged by loving partners. Read our ultimate guide on promise rings that will answer all your questions.

The Meaning Behind Promise Rings

A promise ring, sometimes known as a pre-engagement ring, is generally given in a relationship to symbolise commitment. Whilst for many young couples, a promise ring is a vow for an engagement ring to come, others may use it to show their loyalty, love and devotion to their partner. They can also be a representation of a certain milestone reached in a relationship, such as an anniversary or a shared life goal.

Giving & Receiving Promise Rings

The reasons behind giving and receiving promise rings vary. Typically, couples present them as a promise for a future marriage, but it may not be the right time now due to many reasons (such as age, finances, distance, etc). Promise rings are not reserved for romantic relationships alone, they can also be given to your best-friend, mum, sister, yourself, etc. In friendships, it can be a way of saying you'll always be by each other's side, which are also known as friendship rings. On the other hand, a promise ring can be a symbol and a reminder of a promise you've made to yourself. The meaning of promise rings is so broad, allowing anyone to be a giver and a receiver.

At R O M E E L A, we believe promise rings are a beautiful way to show commitment to the one you love, that's why we created a special collection of promise rings ready to show your love.

The Perfect Moment To Give A Promise Ring

When it comes to the timing of a promise ring, it depends on the people involved. If you feel that your relationship has reached that stage, then the time is right. Some people may choose to gift the promise ring at an anniversary, or a romantic getaway. Others may present it in a more casual setting without the formality. On the contrary, if it is for a friend, you can gift it at a friendship anniversary, or at a time you feel they may need it most. It is entirely subjective.

At the end of the day, the most important thing is the meaning of the promise and what it symbolises. It is important to let the person receiving the ring know the meaning behind it to ensure you're both on the same page.

What Finger Should You Wear A Promise Ring On?

A promise ring can be worn on any finger, although it is typically either worn on the middle or ring finger on the right hand, as the ring finger on the left hand is typically reserved for an engagement ring. However, the choice is completely down to the individual, depending on personal preference of cultural traditions.

What Happens To A Promise Ring After You Get Engaged?

If a couple gets engaged, the promise ring often takes on a new role. Some choose to continue wearing it on a different finger or hand, where-as others choose to keep it as a keepsake. Ultimately, it's the couple's preference depending on the sentimental value of the ring.

What Metal Should A Promise Ring Be?

There is no standard metal or metal colour that a promise ring should be. Promise rings can be silver, gold, rose gold, or any other colour depending on personal preference. However, if we're talking about durability, then it is best to opt for a 925 Sterling Silver or Stainless Steel metal base as they are long-lasting, and can be kept for years to come. You can explore both options on our website based on your style.

The History Of Promise Rings

The tradition of promise rings can be tracked back to ancient times where rings were given to symbolise commitment and love. In ancient Rome, they were given as a promise of marriage. In the middle ages, 'Posy Rings' were given to romantic interests as tokens of love. During the Renaissance, promise rings became more ornate and were often made of gold and silver. In the Victorian era, rings featured gemstones and spelled out romantic words. Pre-engagement rings became popular from the 1970's until today, also known as promise rings. 

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